tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post7249880934718918462..comments2023-11-03T07:03:44.938-06:00Comments on Big Blue Barn West: Abuse Comes in Many Guisesaimshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12685252628734838159noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-47182110585133315172009-08-11T20:22:47.513-06:002009-08-11T20:22:47.513-06:00I'm afraid I was suffering a bit like that fro...I'm afraid I was suffering a bit like that from our neighbours aims and it hurts. Why oh why does hurting someone give some people so much pleasure? Hugs from Ireland ~Gina~ xxxBThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16800917080090010655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-7458905061167996462009-08-05T14:17:27.672-06:002009-08-05T14:17:27.672-06:00Could you bottle this new strength up and sell it?...Could you bottle this new strength up and sell it? Because I would be first in line to buy it.Joy T.http://aspotoft.typepad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-6364244956574558052009-08-04T01:16:13.097-06:002009-08-04T01:16:13.097-06:00I'm with you Aims. I don't put up with an...I'm with you Aims. I don't put up with any of that shit. Why would we?travelling, but not in lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01063643541653145954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-15796696045050427692009-08-03T11:25:07.758-06:002009-08-03T11:25:07.758-06:00I was certainly glad to see your comment about it ...I was certainly glad to see your comment about it not being any of your virtual friends. I'm sorry someone has hurt you enough that you felt you needed to write this post. I'm thinking of you.grandmamargiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00794143215201941790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-34177304587379261132009-08-03T07:22:47.300-06:002009-08-03T07:22:47.300-06:00Powerful post my friend. You're a good person...Powerful post my friend. You're a good person, a very good person. Why anyone would want to abuse you is beyond me.<br /><br />Take care, CJ xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-74732626756364307482009-08-03T01:22:44.992-06:002009-08-03T01:22:44.992-06:00I too reach a cut off point from which there is no...I too reach a cut off point from which there is no going back. It doesn't happen very often, but when it does, it is for life. People are always taken aback when I reach that point and try to make me feel as though I have over-reacted. It is NOT over-reacting, it is standing up for your right to choose who you want to associate with. And who you don't. It is your right to self-respect, your choice for what is best for you. The best choice you can make for you, is to avoid people who make you feel bad. <br /><br />Hugs. xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-48164089981290526932009-08-02T16:50:12.816-06:002009-08-02T16:50:12.816-06:00Am with you all the way. Some people are just so s...Am with you all the way. Some people are just so selfish, inconsiderate, cruel and take advantage of a kind heart. It's good you vented and like everyone says, it's their loss, Aims.<br /><br />I gotta figure a way to put my pic up here and be one of your fans.<br /><br />xoxoxoPopkinsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-11432996632958017432009-08-02T11:52:34.871-06:002009-08-02T11:52:34.871-06:00Late to the party ... but I think you know me well...Late to the party ... but I think you know me well enough to know what you see is what you get ... I hope whoever or whatever riled you has backed off .. cause I dont let any take advantage of my friends ....Darylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08241795455748298624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-78438088722861706862009-08-02T10:42:24.291-06:002009-08-02T10:42:24.291-06:00Some people take great pleasure in hurting others ...Some people take great pleasure in hurting others - they don't deserve to be tolerated. I'm glad it's no-one in the blogosphere that has crossed you Aims. :)Akelamaluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234268568845148285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-4386124800480176242009-08-02T10:20:11.818-06:002009-08-02T10:20:11.818-06:00Thank you everyone!
I just wanted to say that all...Thank you everyone!<br /><br />I just wanted to say that all the poor treatment is not from my blog but from people I interact with in 'real'(?) life.<br /><br />But thank you for all the emails and comments of concern. I truly appreciate all of them. It's amazing how lovely and caring 'virtual friends' are compared to 'real life'. I have not heard word one from the perpetrators. Typical isn't it?aimshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12685252628734838159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-5899319819620322262009-08-02T01:43:19.582-06:002009-08-02T01:43:19.582-06:00Your post reminds me of the saying, "Hurt me ...Your post reminds me of the saying, "Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me." This is a hard lesson to learn, but we do have to draw lines. Some people just aren't safe or good for us. <br /><br />I certainly hope you're not getting poor treatment on your blog.<br /><br />Thank you aims for your recent visit to my blog. Best wishes to you...! xosallymandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15832828827048897372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-26363295275750231872009-08-01T21:38:21.509-06:002009-08-01T21:38:21.509-06:00I hear you loud and clear. It about learning good ...I hear you loud and clear. It about learning good boundaries, tolerating less, and holding onto what you believe in. I too no longer sit back and be walked over. It not that we attract those types, like a wounded deer a lion will pounce upon easy prey. I wipe people completely when they over step the mark one too many times. They are usually shocked (even if have been warned) because they just expect you to put up with it time after time.<br />I value, love, respect and am loyal to those closest to me, if it is always one sided then ...see you later!!!!<br />Good post!MEDICALBOOBOOShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12238357586852121228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-37608100696286839622009-08-01T18:30:53.826-06:002009-08-01T18:30:53.826-06:00I feel bad that your hurting. I have appreciated y...I feel bad that your hurting. I have appreciated your blog and your comments on my blog. I certainly would hate to see that end.Dr.Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02752941912945095736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-46788089972834300792009-08-01T18:30:31.292-06:002009-08-01T18:30:31.292-06:00I feel bad that your hurting. I have appreciated y...I feel bad that your hurting. I have appreciated your blog and your comments on my blog. I certainly would hate to see that end.Dr.Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02752941912945095736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-80899650102980228802009-08-01T13:11:31.879-06:002009-08-01T13:11:31.879-06:00I finally figured out that all my life I've fe...I finally figured out that all my life I've felt like one of those blow-up clowns. You punch them down and I keep popping up. <br /><br />But...as you say, one day someone will pop a hole in that clown and I will stay down. Then it will take all I have to get up again, but the one who pushed me down will no longer be part of my life. <br /><br />I've found my breaking point and glad you've found yours. <br /><br />We really must try to meet.Leslie:https://www.blogger.com/profile/11964698251137788839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-72193742036431645502009-08-01T05:52:39.852-06:002009-08-01T05:52:39.852-06:00I hope you reach the right person, Aims, otherwise...I hope you reach the right person, Aims, otherwise you're scaring a whole bunch of people here. I hope your abuser reads your blog, it won't help much, unless you're just venting.Irenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05043376053971475659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-1687818577242347692009-08-01T05:18:25.187-06:002009-08-01T05:18:25.187-06:00Dear Aims,
with you all the way,
Mickle xoxoxo...Dear Aims, <br /><br />with you all the way, <br /><br />Mickle xoxoxoxoxMickle in NZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10432796020646607634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-54214699725480500202009-08-01T05:12:06.198-06:002009-08-01T05:12:06.198-06:00Oh dear I wonder what brought that on. I will do ...Oh dear I wonder what brought that on. I will do everything I can to stay on your "nice" side aims ! But I know what you mean - there is only so much one can take and then we have to stand up for ourselvessoftintheheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01365562754859033869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-67942693053164657952009-08-01T04:17:05.317-06:002009-08-01T04:17:05.317-06:00Have people been abusing u on your blog Aims ?
Its...Have people been abusing u on your blog Aims ?<br />Its easy to be nasty when you hide behind anon or a made up name.<br />And you right abuse is pernicious <br />Often people fail to notice it happening under their nose.<br />This drip drip drip of undermining and caustic comment is so damaging.<br />I have a good friend who after years of this from her "lovely attentive "husband has finally divorced him. sadly most people couldn't understand why she wanted out.<br />Like you she has really found her voice -I am so glad.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-8068193726692361402009-08-01T03:34:27.200-06:002009-08-01T03:34:27.200-06:00Thanks for commenting on my blog so regularly - I ...Thanks for commenting on my blog so regularly - I hardly ever leave comments, as you know! But I recognise your feelings in this post. There's a limit to how much we can be pushed around.Lolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08929723020089651115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-54429260009890669042009-08-01T02:26:49.061-06:002009-08-01T02:26:49.061-06:00Ach! Someone's hurt you? So sorry for their lo...Ach! Someone's hurt you? So sorry for their loss.Rachel Greenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13048590167153841615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-3187655171085039802009-08-01T01:29:25.392-06:002009-08-01T01:29:25.392-06:00Aims, I hope those who have hurt you take note of ...Aims, I hope those who have hurt you take note of the post. They will be the losers, missing out on you perception and eloquence.<br /><br />Hope everything else is going well.<br /><br />Deborah xdNDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00531819276422542672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-14983134659072508272009-08-01T00:51:14.252-06:002009-08-01T00:51:14.252-06:00Oh, Aims, I hope we never come to blows!I would ha...Oh, Aims, I hope we never come to blows!I would hate that. <br />I wonder what has brought this on? Has someone upset you? I hope not.<br /><br />I have just noticed your last post with the lovely necklace and pottery. Somehow I must have missed that one!Maggie Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06183886005936250976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-77020322675792895402009-07-31T23:09:47.722-06:002009-07-31T23:09:47.722-06:00I certainly hope if we ever meet randomly on some ...I certainly hope if we ever meet randomly on some street you will see the smile and slight nod I send your way. I try to do that to anyone whose eyes meet mine. Not because I'm so uppity, but because it's how I'd like to be first treated. Open book here. <br />And it would be nice to meet someday. Maybe in NYC with Daryl. ;-)abbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08879476262337290531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028121825203381857.post-37347864755907290042009-07-31T21:50:32.639-06:002009-07-31T21:50:32.639-06:00Sometimes you just have to get it out there! You ...Sometimes you just have to get it out there! You go girl!bichonpawzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09344322575991668081noreply@blogger.com